Emotional Equation

This is one of the best emotional truth I had read. Very astonshing and true. Life will be simple if we are taken things in a positive manner. One can see how complicated things are just so simple when we see things in a postive manner. Here it goes....

When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I dont want it to be done - and i m not able to accept it - I become angry.
When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I dont want it to be done - and i m able to accept it - I remain tolerant.

When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i m not able to produce - and I m not able to accept it - I become jealous.
When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i m not able to produce - and i m able to accept it - I get inspired.

When i m encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i m not sure how i m going to handle - and i m not able to accept it - it causes fear in me.
When i m encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i m not sure how i m going to handle - and i m able to accept it - i feel adventurous about it.

When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me and i m not able to accept it -
it develops hatred in me.
When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i m able to accept it -
it helps me forgive them.

When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i m not able to accept it - i say - i m missing u.
When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i m able to accept it - i say - i m thinkin of u.

Thus, Emotional Equation becomes:

Something + acceptance = positive emotion
Something + non-acceptance = negative emotion

So, it is not something or someone who is making me feel positive or negative, but its my acceptance or non-acceptance of something or someone, which impacts things.

Being human; we face bitter situtaons in our life,Someone hurts us, ignores us.
Instead of cribbing our whole life about it, its good to accept things they are.Its not easy but then it can save a whole of time :-)) and energy :-)) . On a serious note, its better to accept the worst 'coz there is'nt any point in cribbing about things. Remember LIFE IS ONCE.
Its just better to think that it was better to have happened that way which has lead us to the whole new strong,determined person we are today.